Taking the bus again

I've started taking the bus again. No, not to school. That was many decades ago. Now, I'm riding the local transit bus to the office about once a week. But I'm finding many similarities to my school bus ride from so long ago.

First, I notice that how I'm greeted by the bus driver has an impact on my ride. Each driver is different. One of them ignores my "good morning" and just looks right through me. Another is quick to greet me and even has a hint of a smile on his face. As you might guess, I prefer the latter. That simple gesture, a hello and a smile, makes a big difference.

Although it was probably a coincidence, the stared-right-through-me driver has also driven through my bus stop, even though I properly requested the stop, and then not offered a word of apology after letting me off a quarter-mile later. A simple "sorry" would have sufficed. It wasn't the extra distance that bothered me, but the lack of remorse. If I had a mobility problem, a quarter-mile would be quite a bit more than an inconvenience.

Like a school bus, a transit bus transports passengers from point A to point B. And like its yellow counterpart, the transit bus offers an experience that is greatly influenced by the driver. Those who make an effort to be friendly and courteous are promoting their employers and the mode of transportation they represent. The others, as I'll call them, are also providing a service by moving people, but they are simply doing a job. In a perfect world, all drivers would offers smiles and pleasant greetings to every passenger. But, the world being what it is, sometimes we have to settle for those who can safely move people to their appointed destinations — or a quarter-mile beyond.

Let me know what you think.

Until next time.

Steve

 

Print | posted on Wednesday, June 06, 2007 4:07 PM

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# re: Taking the bus again

left by Charlotte at 6/7/2007 3:49 PM
A driver can make or break a kid's day. I do get frustrated with my kids when I wish them a cheery Good Morning! and get no response but that doesn't stop me from wishing them a good night a the end of the day. Anyone who sees driving a school bus as just a paycheck is in the wrong job.

 re: Taking the bus again

left by Linda at 6/8/2007 4:14 AM
As a supervisor of 36 bus drivers, I am always reminding them that they need keep up the good mornings and good byes even though many kids don't acknowledge them. Get to know their names early in the year and use their names whenever possible. This should be done to show they care. In this time of uncertainty with budget problems in my state and continuous talk of contracting bus services to save money, the added bonus of knowing the kids and talking to parents gives bus drivers a face to their name and it just may help them keep their jobs.

 re: Taking the bus again

left by Geoff Bridgman at 6/9/2007 6:24 PM
Many of my students don't even make eye contact with me when they get on in the morning. I assume they're still half asleep. Others are pleasant and say good morning or hello. I give them all a smile and greeting when possible, but I've found we're much more talkative during the afternoon run. I get along well with all my students and don't worry about the quiet routine in the AM. I don't take it personally when they're quiet because I know I have a good relationship with all of them and some of the greeting formalities really aren't needed. It all gets down to the kind of interaction you've cultivated with them during the course of the year.

 re: Taking the bus again

left by Kathy at 6/12/2007 3:50 PM
I drive a school bus filled with high schoolers, my school district still owns, maintains and operates its own fleet of nearly 35 buses. I am in total approval of what Linda has said when she notes the importance of greeting each student as they come on and off of the bus. As a driver, with sometimes as many as 50 students on my take-home routes, I have made it my mission to learn all of their names and which bus stop is theirs. Even as they leave the bus, I say good night to them and use their name. Our name is the sweetest sound there is to our own ears. In the beginning of the school year, they tested my patience to see how far I would let them go. I would have them sit up by me in the Angel Seat, so that we could "bond" as I'd call it. With my routes being the farthest in the District, we had plenty of time to get to know each other. Amazing how much these young adults enjoy talking about themselves when you give them the chance to be heard. We would be one-on-one. To my surprise, even after our period of "Bonding Time" was over, some of these students would independently sit up in that Angel Seat just to talk to me and share their life's troubles with another adult.

This past school year went by too quickly. I will miss them all dearly this summer. To my compliment, they have begged me to return to their Route next school year. You can bet your sweet ride, I will be there!

 re: Taking the bus again

left by Michele at 6/16/2007 3:39 PM
I learned all the kids names, their pets names, what sport they played, what subject and/or teacher they loved/hated so we never ran out of things to talk about. On the long drive to school some of the little kids would practice their spelling words with me.

Of course I gave them all a good morning and used their names when they got on the bus and wished them a great day when they got off the bus. I even got a few who said they weren't morning people to loosen up and say good morning back!

You set the mood for these kids when they go to school because sometimes you are the first person they encounter in their day if their parents are at work when they get up in the morning.

 re: Taking the bus again

left by Joyce at 6/18/2007 8:08 AM
Saying Good Morning ( with a smile on your face ) should be a requirement to be a school bus driver. A bus ride is a pretty scary thing for the real little ones.. How much worse it would be to have to ride to school every day with a grumpy driver !!....

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