Keeping a close watch

School bus drivers are often called the “eyes and ears” of their communities. That was certainly true in the case of 13-year-old Alexis “Lexie” Glover. The efforts of a few observant and caring pupil transporters could have led authorities to save Lexie’s life.

 

Two separate school bus driver-attendant teams spotted signs that the Manassas, Va., area girl was being abused by her adoptive mother.

 

As reported by The Washington Post, Lexie’s bus driver and attendant once noticed that the girl’s wrists had marks as if she had been tied up. Lexie told them that her mother had bound her and made her lie on the car floor during an out-of-state trip.

 

On another occasion, the bus staff noticed a large welt on Lexie’s head. She told them that her mother would — while videotaping — force her to hit herself. The bus staff notified Lexie’s school and the Prince William County Department of Social Services.

 

Later, when Lexie came to the bus in her underwear, the bus staff bundled her up and called their dispatcher, which led to a call to the police.

 

A driver-attendant team on a different bus twice spotted Lexie’s mother drive away from a daycare center with her daughter in the trunk. They notified their dispatcher and then gave written statements of what they had seen to police.

 

Despite these pupil transporters’ best efforts, for which they deserve commendation, police said that the mother denied the incidents and that Lexie kept quiet. Other alarming incidents were reported by neighbors.

 

On Jan. 9, Lexie’s body was found in a shallow creek. Her death was ruled a homicide, and her mother was later charged with the crime.

 

Although this case ended in tragedy, it shows another important facet of school bus personnel: They look after kids on and off their bus. It’s not just a matter of driving safely.

 

But how do pupil transporters know when to report a suspicion of abuse? In Lexie’s case, the signs were unmistakable, but it may not always be so clear.

 

On its Website, www.childabuse.org, the Tennyson Center for Children lists possible indicators of abuse, including unexplained bruises, rope burns, behavioral extremes and wariness of physical contact.

 

Many people are hesitant to report their concerns, but “without aware adults, some children might never receive help,” the organization says. “Remember, you are reporting suspicion of child abuse. Even if you aren’t sure, it’s better to let authorities check it out. You might save a child’s life!”

 

Unfortunately, the authorities did not save Lexie. After her death, a state investigation began of the response of the county Department of Social Services. Virginia requires this type of review in any case of child abuse that results in death, but county officials in this case prompted the state to accelerate the process.

 

They can’t bring Lexie back, but hopefully they can shed some light on why the system failed and keep it from happening again. Vigilant school bus drivers and attendants can only do so much.


— Thomas McMahon, Executive Editor

Print | posted on Monday, March 09, 2009 6:17 PM

Comments

 re: Keeping a close watch

left by Dan Luttrell at 3/10/2009 5:17 AM
Drove special needs for eight years. You know your student's after awhile. I had firearms issues, a long time ago, at one child's home where a sibling would hold a loaded gun on his brother after he would dump him out of his wheel chair down the stairs at home. The boy did not want to go into the house. Called mom and dad and they took care of the issue once they knew about it. ALWAYS, complete a report form to your administrators for documentation on addressing serious issues.

Another child had a medication change. Mom was up all night. Brought the young man to the bus in the morning. Mom had tears in her eyes. I had asked what was wrong. On the way down the road I was hammered by tennis shoes, books, his pants that he pulled off. I was able to catch him before he started swinging the metal frame walker at all of us. I could contain him to the step well until I could flag someone down in their car. I sent them down to mom's house for help. They managed to get the young man to the hospital. The doctor said that the medication change would have left him in this state for the rest of his life had they not taken him to the hospital when they had. They were able to counter dose and saved this family from much more heart aches.

So pay attention to the behaviors of the children. It really matters.

Dan, in Indiana

 re: Keeping a close watch

left by June at 3/10/2009 5:17 AM
How can we treat a human life with so little regard? The victims of this tragedy now include an entire community - everyone who witnessed the abuse; children, parents, educators and the justice sytem personnel. How could so mucn evidence not have made a difference? Trust was broken. This episode was observed by other children and taught them that there is no consequence for such brutality.

 Former bus driver .........Keeping a close watch

left by Esther at 3/10/2009 2:56 PM
I am shocked that this wen ton bended ear. Regardless to the girl denying this, the mother should have been followed and then it would have been noticed. An there were too many other people reporting this the child should have been taken out of the home and a full investigation should have been done

# Observe and report

left by Along for the Ride at 5/18/2009 9:39 AM
Observe and report

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